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Post by No. 1 son on Feb 1, 2019 7:26:06 GMT -5
This has been introduced. I think 7 states have it now, plus the District, whatever that is. I have a couple of friends dealing with this now, and maybe it would give families some options.
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Post by sipowitz86 on Feb 1, 2019 8:17:26 GMT -5
Would much rather see this than any more "mercy killing" stories.
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Post by minx on Feb 1, 2019 11:24:20 GMT -5
Agreed. What we actually need are for doctors to be better trained on how to deal with 'end of life' issues. We're all going to die, and there are cases where it's better to allow a patient to die with as much dignity and comfort as possible, rather than pushing for an aggressive treatment.
Our friend's wife died of lung cancer. Up until her final weekend, the oncologists were pushing harsher and harsher chemo, and her final weeks were miserable.
OTOH, another friend had ovarian cancer. She lived in a different state, and the oncologist gently explained that there was only so much that could be done when she reached the point where the cancer was terminal. He helped her arrange for at-home equipment, services and pain management. She died the way she wanted to - at home with her family and friends around her.
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Post by No. 1 son on Feb 1, 2019 11:32:21 GMT -5
I have seen terminal illness tear families apart, emotionally and financially. I would like to see the insurance companies take note, and in the interest of not prolonging expensive and futile prolongation of hospice, defer treatment at user's request and transfer possible cost savings to surviving family. This ability would help family members make a decision with less remorse, and it should be at least an option. I think it could be done. Not that the ins companies care about anyone, but the bottom line might make it possible, sort of a cap on treatments.
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Post by minx on Feb 1, 2019 13:10:25 GMT -5
I'd also like to see the definition of hospice expanded a little by insurance companies. There are many hospice providers who will help you months before the end with things like taking you to doctor's appointments, explaining your illness, and just generally listening to you.
As our population ages, these issues need to be addressed.
And any long-term illness or disability can easily tear a family apart. It's a difficult and stressful thing to deal with, and we only give lip service in terms of actual help.
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